Remember Friday’s post where I talk about how much I hate my brother-in-law and his wife?
Apparently she reads my blog. HI!!!
She whined to our mother-in-law about how the post hurt her feelings. Gimme a break, dude. She was worried that someone from some school would see it and think that she’s not fit to be around children. What other people do with their children isn’t my business but I what I do with MINE is. I know that she wouldn’t hurt Peanut because if she did she would die. Because I would kill her. And no, sis-in-law, that wasn’t a death threat. You try to find something wrong in everything JuJu and I say and do but you don’t have a leg to stand on.
I am annoyed and tempted to say something hateful in regards to her children but I won’t because I’m more mature than that. It isn’t their fault, after all, and I don’t know the whole story so it wouldn’t be right to cast judgment on them or her.
Even though that’s exactly what she does to me.
I get it. She’s jealous. Her life isn’t perfect but you know what? Neither is mine. At least I don’t act like I’m better than everyone else but am secretly so insecure that I have to say negative things about others to make myself feel better.
Being a “Christian” doesn’t make someone a good person.
The reality of it all is that she and I are completely different people and will never be friends. Even if she wasn’t mean to me I don’t think I would want to spend any more time with her than is necessary. I can’t blame her for that and I don’t. Her husband (JuJu’s older brother) and JuJu do not get along. They might make small talk over a meal but that’s it. They have never been friends and are very different from one another. JuJu’s brother and sister-in-law just have shitty attitudes and everything that comes out of their mouths sounds hateful.
So we don’t get along. It’s no big deal as long as the parents don’t get involved except that sister-in-law runs to mother-in-law and tattles to her. She expects our mother-in-law to confront me on her behalf?
Seriously, sis-in-law, get a life. My daughter deserves to have a good aunt and a good uncle. However, if she never develops a relationship with you it will not break my heart nor will it break JuJu’s. The only person you are hurting is yourself.
Way to tell her that she needs to grow up and not let her get away with it.
Kill them with kindness, that is the best thing you can do, and don't woller in the mud with them. MDA
Uh Oh lol! I am so glad you didnt sensor this post because you knew she was reading! Keepin it real AWESOME =D
You can choose your friends but not your family.Let's hope after reading this post she'll realise childish she's being.
I swear to god you're like my blogging twin or something. wtf? I posted a little bit about what my SIL did not long ago. Firstly! Like 3 months after I had my son she decided to go from being my friend to tattle tale. I wrote on my facebook "I hate my F*n family". She took it to mean my husband and son but of course I was talking about someone else. So instead of just being a big girl and realizing she made a mistake she decided why not tell my husband every thing I've said to her for the past year lol. So we stopped talking to her.. blocked her and all that.
Not even 6 months ago she comes on my facebook (she had been blocking me before) and says "I'm your sil, we should get along". I tore her a new one but said fine.. only so you can see pics of my kid etc.
Guess what she fucking did? She read my blog post about how I said my husband was a dumbass for eating 3 humongous chocolate bars then complaining he didn't feel good.. along w/ the fact he needs a freakin' root canal etc etc.. (you can read it yourself). Since she didn't convince my husband last time she decided this time she'd tell her parents!!
So her parents call my husband (Did I mention they all live in norway?) and ask if we're having problems… Who gives a shit if we are, it's none of their business. Luckily they didn't really care..but it caused my husband who is apparently computer illiterate to search out my blog.. only finding it on blog catalog or something and not even reading the particular post in question because like I said he's computer illiterate.
So anyway! my husband says to me she's an idiot blah blah.. he's always hated her etc etc. Then he says "If she does it again I'll say something". I said "IF she does it AGAIN?" No you get in there and you write her now. He did..
I went back and forth whether to keep my post up or not.. eventually I did..but then I blocked the entire country because my stupid husband sent the link to my blog to his parents… because apparently they couldn't find it linked on my youtube account for the last year which they look at every day.
So yeah.. anyway.. I chewed her up real bad on facebook and then blocked her.. it must have really ticked her off because she started posting furiously on her own blog.. Yes, the one she made because she had to try to be like me! She's such a loser and that's why this whole thing started.. On her blog she posted the F word a bunch of times (she doesn't write in English) so I called her out on it and said she was a hypocrite for using the word.. THE word that caused me to stop talking to her in the first place.. the one I wasn't allowed to use.. the one that embarassed and humiliated my husband online LOL. The husband who is a black metal musician and writes lyrics way worse than I could ever dream of.
And speaking of that.. Nowhere ever do I ever mention my mom blog and my husbands band in the same sentence.. but in order to give herself some attention she wrote a post talking about how Norwegian men can't navigate the female anatomy (mainly the "button" are) with a diagram and all..and then in the next post she wrote about my husbands band and that it's her brother..and then wrote a fucking post about happy birthday to her brother and posted links to it on facebook for all his friends to see.
Stupid Psycho In-laws. Hate them. Don't waste time on them.
Heyyyy I feel all better now! Thanks for helping me release my anger lol.
Stay away from your In-laws!
great post! I'm glad you are standing up for yourself, your child and your hubby. It sucks to have shitty in-laws, doesn't it? I can Soooooo relate. Hopefully after reading this she'll decide that they don't need to visit when your in OK.
There is nothing that sucks more than having family (in laws) that suck. It sounds like you are handing it well though! My fav phrase: "I AM THE MOM!". Thats all that matters. I also think that killing them with kindness is the best way to rise above, and irritate the ever living shit out of someone. Two birds, one stone!
Good luck
in-laws equal satan.
that…is all.
ahahahahahahaha~