Remember Friday’s post where I talk about how much I hate my brother-in-law and his wife?
Apparently she reads my blog. HI!!!
She whined to our mother-in-law about how the post hurt her feelings. Gimme a break, dude. She was worried that someone from some school would see it and think that she’s not fit to be around children. What other people do with their children isn’t my business but I what I do with MINE is. I know that she wouldn’t hurt Peanut because if she did she would die. Because I would kill her. And no, sis-in-law, that wasn’t a death threat. You try to find something wrong in everything JuJu and I say and do but you don’t have a leg to stand on.
I am annoyed and tempted to say something hateful in regards to her children but I won’t because I’m more mature than that. It isn’t their fault, after all, and I don’t know the whole story so it wouldn’t be right to cast judgment on them or her.
Even though that’s exactly what she does to me.
I get it. She’s jealous. Her life isn’t perfect but you know what? Neither is mine. At least I don’t act like I’m better than everyone else but am secretly so insecure that I have to say negative things about others to make myself feel better.
Being a “Christian” doesn’t make someone a good person.
The reality of it all is that she and I are completely different people and will never be friends. Even if she wasn’t mean to me I don’t think I would want to spend any more time with her than is necessary. I can’t blame her for that and I don’t. Her husband (JuJu’s older brother) and JuJu do not get along. They might make small talk over a meal but that’s it. They have never been friends and are very different from one another. JuJu’s brother and sister-in-law just have shitty attitudes and everything that comes out of their mouths sounds hateful.
So we don’t get along. It’s no big deal as long as the parents don’t get involved except that sister-in-law runs to mother-in-law and tattles to her. She expects our mother-in-law to confront me on her behalf?
Seriously, sis-in-law, get a life. My daughter deserves to have a good aunt and a good uncle. However, if she never develops a relationship with you it will not break my heart nor will it break JuJu’s. The only person you are hurting is yourself.